"You are already whole. You just have to remember"

You’re not here to fix yourself, or to become someone else. You’re here to remember the woman you already are—the one beneath the layers of stories, expectations, and conditioning. The one who holds both her light and her shadows. Who carries her fire and her softness. Her rage and her tenderness. Knowing that all of it is part of your wholeness.

The feminine path doesn’t ask you to make yourself smaller or try harder. It doesn’t ask you to fit into someone else’s idea of who you should be. It asks you to come home to your body, to feel the parts you’ve silenced, to breathe into the places you’ve avoided, and to finally listen to the truth that has always lived within you.

And yes, that can feel raw. Sometimes it’s uncomfortable. Sometimes it burns through the illusions you’ve carried for years. But it also roots you, frees you, and awakens you to the woman you were always meant to be.

When you choose to walk this path, you meet yourself in your deepest essence and embrace all of yourself. From there you move through life steady, anchored, and magnetic—leading with softness and strength, deeply rooted, fully here, fully alive.

You will notice that things will shift. Because when you embody all that you are, everything shifts: the way you love, the way you hold yourself, the way you show up in your work and relationships. Your presence ripples outward, quietly but powerfully, touching everything and everyone around you.

That makes this path a doorway—an invitation to step fully into your own power, your truth, your body, and to awaken the divine feminine that has always lived within you.

When you step in, I’m here to walk beside you—as a guide and a mirror. Reflecting back your true essence and showing you the power and magic you’ve always carried. 

Intuitive Approach

What I offer is not traditional coaching. It’s an initiation. A field where the parts of yourself you’ve hidden, silenced, or forgotten are invited to return home. This work is deep, sacred, and embodied. No quick fixes or bypassing. It’s a descent and rising. A remembering of what has always been yours.

I work intuitive, grounded, somatic, and trauma-informed. My approach is honest and realistic—no sugar-coating—but always with a touch of lightness and humor.

I don’t follow scripts or fixed steps. I tune in first—listening to what’s alive, asking the questions that reveal what wants attention, and following the flow that emerges. Sometimes that means doing a ritual, breath-work, energy work or shadow integration. Other times, it’s about holding space for your inner child, or simply sitting in stillness, listening to what wants to move through you. All held within a safe space where you can truly arrive, be seen and welcomed in your fullness.

The Four Initiations

The feminine is cyclical and ever-changing, and each woman walks her own unique path. That’s why I don’t believe in “one journey fits all”. Instead, I created four initiations. Each one inspired by the elements. Each one a field you can step into.

You may start with one. You may move through several. Or maybe you choose to move through all of them, depending on your needs and desires. Together, they awaken the full spectrum of your feminine essence. Bringing you deeper into the truth of who you are.

As you read through them, feel into your body.  Where do you feel the pull? Your body knows which initiation is yours to step into—trust it.

I’m looking forward to meeting you. Feel which initiation calls you, and see if it’s the right fit for your journey.

Rooted

Woman

I am in deep connection with my body and the earth

You give, you hold, you carry. But when was the last time you truly felt held? When did you last honor your own needs, your own truth? So much of your energy has gone into holding space for others, that somewhere along the way you lost the connection with yourself.

Here, we slow down. We root, we listen, we return—out of your head and into your body. Shifting from doing to being.

This is not about adding more. It’s about stripping back, turning inward, and feeling what’s really there—even the uncomfortable parts.

As you root deeper into your own presence, you will start honoring your needs and your wisdom. You stay centered, even when life pulls you in all directions, and you begin to trust yourself fully—allowing you to finally feel the peace and safety you’ve been longing for.

This initiation brings you home—to your body, to your intuition, and to the rooted woman within. The one who remembers she already carries it all. 

As a Rooted woman you:

Sensual

Woman

I am a vessel of pleasure, radiance, and feminine magic

You long to express yourself fully—to move, love, and be in your feminine magic—yet something holds you back. Maybe it feels unsafe. Maybe you’ve been told you are too much. Or maybe you’ve simply forgotten how to surrender to your own pleasure.

Here, you will remember that your body is sacred and your pleasure powerful. Through your body, I will guide you into a deeper connection with your heart, womb and yoni—awakening the sensual woman within.

This initiation is about softening into yourself. Meeting the shame, fear, and old stories—and choosing not to let them define you. It’s about surrendering to the wisdom of your body, as you reclaim the pleasure, radiance, and power that have always been yours.

As a Sensual woman you:

Pure

Woman

I choose only what truly nourishes me

Do you feel heavy—carrying old patterns, beliefs, and stories that no longer feel like you? Deep down you know: it’s time to let go. You crave simplicity, clarity, and space. Yet the noise around you—and within you—keeps pulling you away from what’s true.

Purity is about radical honesty and sacred release. About stripping back what drains you while becoming deeply aware of what you allow into your body, your mind, your home and your daily rhythms. From the food you eat, the cycles you honor, the media you consume, to the relationships you keep. It’s about choosing only what truly nourishes you.

This initiation brings you back to yourself, to your natural rhythm. It’s a purification on every level—emotional, mental, energetic and physical. Allowing you to align with your essence, live in radical clarity, and create a life that feels spacious, simple, and deeply true.

As a Pure woman you:

Untamed

Woman

I liberate and embody my full power

Do you feel a fire burning deep inside of you—ready to be unleashed, yet held back? Have you silenced parts of yourself that were meant to be wild? Played small for too long? You were never meant to live a half-lived life. You had dreams, visions, and desires. Then life happened, and parts of you got silenced along the way.

It’s time to shed the conditioning and beliefs that
kept you safe, but small, and reclaim your untamed feminine fire.
 
This is about creating a life that feels fully alive, fierce, and truly yours.
 
Together, we’ll awaken what’s been waiting to rise, reigniting your power, and set you free to move, speak, and live unapologetically. Not just within yourself—but in the way you live, love, and and walk through the world.
 
This is an initiation into liberation—stepping boldly into the fierce, alive woman you’ve always been.

As an Untamed woman you:

How we work

In-depth intake

Your journey is uniquely yours. Therefore we begin with your story, your truth and your intentions. This becomes the ground we work from.

5 deep dive sessions

Bi-weekly 75-minute sessions via Zoom. Each one unique, intuitive, somatic, and deeply tuned to you.

Whenever possible, we can also meet in nature or in my home in Portugal.

Integration practices

After each session you receive personalized practices to anchor your transformation into your daily life.

In-between support

Weekly check-ins via voice message, so you feel held and guided throughout your journey.

Investment in your transformation

€ 1250,- 

Your transformation begins the moment you say yes. 

This investment is a commitment—to yourself, to your growth, and to the woman you already are.

In five sessions, we’ll dive deep. Creating profound shifts that continue to unfold long after our time together ends.

If your body says yes, you’re welcome to step in.

Words of love

Manouk
"My experience with Brenda has been absolutely incredible. Brenda feels like a warm bath: loving, safe, open, and welcoming. Working with her brought so much transformation, healing and a deep connecting with my ‘Self’. I wholeheartedly recommend Brenda to anyone. She is incredibly skilled at listening, reflecting, diving deep, and embracing the shadow sides. Besides that, she also has an immense amount of knowledge. My life feels like it has direction again; I feel healthier, mentally stronger, and I feel more energy, direction, and confidence. Forever grateful 🤎"
Louise
"As women, we often forget how unique, powerful, and worthy we are. Through working with Brenda, I remembered the truth of my womanhood, my strength, and my worth. That’s something I wish for every woman!"
Jessica
"Brenda, I have had the absolute pleasure and privilege of working with you and it has transformed me and filled my heart and soul with so much nourishment and love! You are truly one of a kind! I can’t thank you enough for your guidance, insight, reflection, wisdom, space holding and love! I am a more embodied, more turned on, more whole version of myself thanks to your support. Thank you thank you thank you!"
Paula
"Coaching with Brenda is so much fun and powerful! I have experienced great insights and shifts from our sessions together, thanks to her beautiful and encouraging way of guiding. She has a grounded and loving presence, which made me feel very comfortable and safe to open up and drop deep into my experiences. Each time I felt seen, held and understood with what was coming up for me, and she was always able to guide me through the unexpected and surprising!"
Pleun
"Brenda is someone who offers a lot of space for you to be exactly who you are. She sees you, hears you, and works attentively with you on whatever comes up. After this journey, it feels like a weight has lifted from my shoulders, and I can finally close some chapters that were long overdue. The insights and discoveries have impacted me on a deep level. For this, I am incredibly grateful to Brenda (and to myself). I would definitely recommend Brenda as a coach, as I was able to heal and process on such a deep level and now have the tools to continue in that process—and that’s something I wish for every woman."
Maca
"I really enjoyed my sessions with Brenda. She is very calm and soft and guided me through deep processes of healing, which allowed me to discover the real needs underneath the pain. She uses embodiment practices that are very powerful and useful in your everyday life. Each session we also created a space of celebration that felt really empowering. Thank you once more Brenda!"
Jorien
"My journey with Brenda has given me deep insight. Insight into the way I do (or used to do) things. But also the realization that I am worthy of taking up more space for myself. That I don’t always have to rush but can slow down instead, from a place of knowing I am enough. The journey isn’t over yet, but shifts have started happening in almost every area of my life. Brenda’s unique way of coaching creates a space where I can truly be present with everything that arises. To allow myself to feel deeply, to embrace it all. I am incredible grateful for this journey and I deeply appreciate Brenda her feminine, calm, yet powerful guidance and wisdom, which has been invaluable. Thank you, dear Brenda."